2009/06/27

72 hours and major irritation…

Posted in Chaste perspective at 9:02 pm by The Locked One

and I do mean major.

Gotta try another device/device combination.

I’m thinking either cb-6000s with the ksd-g3 OR the exobelt extreme

2009/06/23

One slightly interesting aspect of being locked…

Posted in Chaste perspective at 9:17 am by The Locked One

I did not bring a q-tip to help align things, so I have to sit to pee.

I am sitting there, getting ready to wipe my cage, and someone else comes in and uses the urinal.  The toilet has slats on the door, and faces the urinal.  He pees, and unaware of my presence, does some incredible shaking.  I’m sitting there, both turned on and slightly humiliated, feeling just how free he is compared to me.

No sooner do I speak…

Posted in Chaste perspective at 9:03 am by The Locked One

Then KH gives me the keys as I’m headed off to work, saying

Keep these somewhere so you don’t know where they are.  We’ll figure out what to do with these tonight.

Back in the saddle…

Posted in Chaste perspective at 6:28 am by The Locked One

Gave KH the keys — both of them — on the way into a restauraunt.  He was surprised, but I don’t have the keys back, either!

2007/03/23

Got the rules tonight…

Posted in Chaste perspective at 11:15 pm by The Locked One

While giving KH a BJ…

The gist?  5-2 BJ equity.  For every 5 I give, I get two.  I cannot save up more than 3, and require at least two before I get mine.

I’m not sure if I’m currently at one or two — I was going at it for a while tonight before we had to stop.  Also, I’m unsure whether or not the 5 minute minimum/45 minute maximum rule from last year applies.  I presume I’ll find this out at golf tomorrow!

Meanwhile, it is a rare moment when I don’t fill the cage completely.  I’m also concerned about the splitting problem, as I woke up this morning with a strong stiffy, and a minor pinching along the right side.  Fiddling with a q-tip cleared the pinching right up — I aligned the rightmost peg from catchy to prevent a recurrence of that event.

Anyway, based upon our availability for BJs, I’m looking at 2-3 weeks minimum between releases, I think.

I hope I can take it!

2007/03/22

Still going strong…

Posted in Chaste perspective at 12:13 pm by The Locked One

Last night, KH mentioned getting a D&D die.  When I pointed out that I didn’t think he’d ever let me go that long locked in, he pointed out that it would be for other things.  What other things?  He didn’t say…

2007/03/21

Really off and running again!

Posted in Chaste perspective at 1:24 am by The Locked One

KH snapped the lock shut after I gave him a BJ, and I don’t have a key.  It’s already been 4 days…

Not quite as exciting as the last time he snapped the lock shut, but I’ll take what I can get.

It can take several tries to get lined up correctly in the cage — and especially to line up the o-ring pins — but I’m in, with no pullout possible, and probably able to take it indefinitely.  We’ll see what KH has in mind, eh?

2007/03/20

So far, so good…

Posted in Chaste perspective at 12:14 pm by The Locked One

I don’t feel anything that might be injurious at all, and there is no way I can pull out.

Now, all I have to do it get KH to lock it with a lock for which I don’t have a key, and we’ll be off and running!

Perhaps a few more days of testing might be in order, but I’m feeling really good about the current set-up.

2007/03/19

Segment removed from catchy…

Posted in Chaste perspective at 9:04 pm by The Locked One

I’m going to wait until completely healed from the other initial KSD-G2 test before testing the new, improved catchy…

Hooray!

Posted in Chaste perspective at 5:40 pm by The Locked One

3-day trial of ksd-g2 chopped up?  Success!  Minor — and I do mean minor — irritation, and only where I didn’t sand the right edge of the newly exposed area enough.  I’m off to chop a segment out of catchy now…

Not only that, but KH is expressing a severe interest — well, in terms of his interest, it’s severe!

And, just so you all know that I’m not bullshitting about creating some fiction, I can assure you that the climax of the first story will end in a canoe.  ‘Nuff said.

2007/03/17

Finally got a chance to chop up the ksd-g2

Posted in Chaste perspective at 3:17 pm by The Locked One

chopped up ksd-g2

I’m wearing it now.  We’ll see how long it lasts — here’s hoping it doesn’t do any damage!

One nice side effect is that I can use just the KSD-G2, without any other spacers (since there is now space below for my ball sack to fit through!

2007/03/06

Held off…

Posted in Chaste perspective at 10:43 pm by The Locked One

So, after a day of excitement, I was feeling some pain.

Got home, and I’m having the same issues with catchy that I was having with the KSD-G2 — rings of bruising/cuts.

On the bright side, KH is still interested!

I’m going to have to take the dremel to catchy.  I’m thinking I’ll take a chunk out from 4-8 o’clock (think of the post attachment point as 12 o’clock), and rounding off the sharp edges that will almost certainly result.

I may start with chopping the same segment out of the ksd-g2 first, so that I’ll have experience doing it before damaging catchy.

Anyone out there know where I can get more of the o-ring material that fits catchy?

2007/03/05

Things are getting serious — in a good way!

Posted in Chaste perspective at 11:20 pm by The Locked One

So, I mentioned that KH was showing more interest.  He’s had some concerns, specifically about keys.  Apparently, he can’t remember where he hid the rest of the keys for the lock I’m in.  We’ve got another unopened package of locks and keys (TSA-safe!  Ha!) which I suspect will be installed tomorrow.

I gave my first BJ while locked in catchy Saturday, before we went to go see Zodiac (OK, not great), without reciprocation.  He didn’t realize I was locked. Since we were going to the film, time was limited.  After about 15 minutes, I set the microwave timer to 2 minutes, and finished with about 30 seconds to go.  Didn’t get much warning about the mouthful of cum, so I spilled the first shot, but got the rest.

While we were waiting on line to get into the film, I mentioned that it was the first time I’d blown him while wearing catchy.  I got the eye-roll, but I pointed out that I’m not giving him too much shit about the waxing he got (I prefer to not have to ask for ID before I suck someone’s dick!).  I’m pretty sure that pointing out the hypocrisy between my being GGG and his reticence is what got us here…

And yes, I’ve not forgotten about the fiction promise, and it’s still in progress.  Real life interfering, go figure.

Oh, yeah.  4 days in, cleaning only with q-tips.  Anyone got any tips for keeping that area between the balls and catchy dry?  Can’t seem to stay dry, and it’s not even summer sweating time, yet…

2007/03/03

Back in after two days out.

Posted in Chaste perspective at 1:40 am by The Locked One

Things were getting irritated, so I had to leave it off a few days.

Now that things are better, we’ve got me back in.  KH is willing to express more interest.  Why?  Let’s just say that wax was involved.  We’ll see how it goes…

2007/02/26

Yet still in.

Posted in Chaste perspective at 9:18 pm by The Locked One

Took a few days break to heal bruised skin on Friday, but things are back to normal, and I’m back in of my own volition.

We’ll see if KH pays attention.

2007/02/22

Still in.

Posted in Chaste perspective at 11:31 pm by The Locked One

Being locked in without being able to get out — at all — is quite an experience.  KH threatened to let me out tonight, but it didn’t happen.

It’s interesting how at times, simply realizing the lack of control will make the cage seem too small.  It can happen anywhere.  At your desk, in a meeting, driving — you never know when the realization will hit and your attempt at an erection will distract you.

I love it!

2007/02/20

Back in (finally) after vacation.

Posted in Chaste perspective at 11:48 pm by The Locked One

Man, was it cold up north!

I’ve just put the cb3k and catchy on again, but not locked the lock (for which only KH has the key).

He rather skipped out on date night, but in the interests of “saving my essense” for him, I put it on.  Maybe he’ll wake up and find it and lock the lock himself.

Yeah, that could be hot.

 PS — still working on the fiction.  It’s going to be in several parts, but I’m going to make sure each part is consistent.

2007/02/01

Now it’s not up to me anymore… again…

Posted in Chaste perspective at 9:02 pm by The Locked One

So, after 3 days in, with myself holding a single key, I decided that I’m ready to give up control again.

So, I gave the one key I had to KH.  He was reticent, at first, so I left the key on the kitchen counter-top.

Then, he had to run an errand.  Before he left, he said:

We’ll see if you get out when I get back.

A view from above.  You can see the washers used to prevent cutting the pins.Side view.I thought “OK, I’ll clean up for him”.  Go to the counter.  No key.
another front view

It really struck me while I was in the shower cleaning underneath the cb3k with a q-tip.  I really can’t get out without using the emergency key attached to the guide for the garage doorThe emergency key..  Immediately, there wasn’t any room to get soap in or out…

Oh, and there will be more fiction on the way.  We have a trip this coming weekend, so I’ll probably have some time to write instead of work.

2007/01/31

Fiction takes time…

Posted in Chaste perspective at 5:28 pm by The Locked One

But in the meantime, some honest non-fiction!

So last week, I was in about a day before KH let me out.  I had not used any o-ring materiel in the ventral side of catchy, so I started having the same skin issues I had with the KSD.

That made me take a break to heal, but as of yesterday, I am back in.  There is NO way out.  It has been about 4 days since I came, so lots of things fill the tube!

I think soon KH may change the lock for one for which I have no key.  We will see, we will see.

2007/01/23

Things are busy!

Posted in Chaste perspective at 6:24 pm by The Locked One

So I’ve gotten linked to.  A lot!

Well, that’s all that I needed.  I’m back in catchy (and by the transitive property, the cb3k)!

KH is still working, but we’ll see what happens when he is done!  /crosses fingers

I’ve been considering putting up some fiction that I’ve been thinking about.  What do you, dear readers, think of that?

2007/01/15

Over 24 hours in catchy…

Posted in Chaste perspective at 9:19 pm by The Locked One

So, catchy has been installed for over 24 hours. Pullout is impossible. Hell, installation is difficult! But it doesn’t feel like there is any damage whatsoever, as opposed to using the KSD-G2, which even sanded down damaged my dick and still let me pull out the back.

catchy1.full.jpg Here you can see the full installation of everything. You can slightly see both the ring and some of the rubber pegs.

catchy2.closeup.jpgHere is a close-up of the top of the cb3k cage, with the lock held up out of the frame. You can see even from this angle that one additional helpful thing about catchy is that it holds the skin down away from the air holes. This seems to help prevent the minor edema that I could experience with the KSD addition.

catchy3.closeupside.jpgHere is a side view, at a bit of an angle. Here you can clearly see the rubber pegs, and how tightly they grip.

Installation, as I pointed out yesterday, was tricky. I removed all the pegs, and selected the six longest ones, installing the longest of those in the top. I used the stocking trick to get the head of my penis through, and slid as much skin along the top through as possible (again, leaving some room so that contraction doesn’t stretch things too badly). I then use the stocking trick again with the cage itself, and attach everything as before.

Removal of catchy is impossible without removing each and every peg first. You have to bend the penis away from each peg in turn, and remove it from the ring. Then, remove the ring as you would the KSD.

Peeing standing up is, in fact, easier than in the plain cb3k, as catch holds the penis aligned at the end. This was the case with the KSD as well, but in case you can’t tell, I am much happier with catchy!

Sooner or later, I’m pretty sure I’ll cut some slightly longer lengths of the O-ring material, so that I am kept completely from the air holes in the cage. It sure makes cleaning much easier while caged! Lots more room for soapy water to slosh around in!

Oh, and if anyone knows how to leave feedback on ebay with the private item number, I would appreciate it!

In summary, if you can get by with the KSD-G2, by all means keep using it. It is a fine product (though I could have gotten by just fine without the jesus-freak card included with it), but in my estimation, this is much better, because much more of the contact with the penis is incidental. I would suspect that more folks will have success preventing pull-out with this item. Your dick may vary!

2007/01/14

A change in how I put on catchy

Posted in Chaste perspective at 7:28 pm by The Locked One

OK, so it was hurting pretty badly. I shouldn’t pull through all the way, as I need some give for when things shrink back down.

Also, since I’m not cut very tight, especially along the shaft, I’ve left out the bottom two pegs completely. I’m still completely unable to pull back at all. I’ll take some photos soon and upload.

We’ll see how it goes overnight, eh?

It needs a name…

Posted in Chaste perspective at 5:51 pm by The Locked One

OK, so the variant arrived yesterday.  Between life and other things, I haven’t had a chance to try it until just about two hours ago.

It took quite a while to get on.  Right now, I’m leaving all the pegs at their full initial length.  This means that when I put it on, using the stocking trick, the pegs follow the stocking so that they all point up towards the head of the penis.  With all of them in here at full length, that means that there is NO pulling back.

That’s a good thing.  Right?

Oh, and it needs a name much better than “security insert for cb3k”.  Somehow, that’s just not catchy.

I know!  I’ll name it “catchy”!

(now everyone agrees that I should be in chastity, right? <grin>)

2007/01/07

Continuing problems…

Posted in Chaste perspective at 3:45 pm by The Locked One

So, the KSD still causes problems.  Anything more than a day, and it takes time to recover.

I’ve ordered a variant that uses angled soft rubber pegs, and I’m hopeful.

Oh, and the gaychastityslaves site is out of commission.  An email they sent said it may come back up within a few months, or perhaps never.  We’ll see what happens.

2006/08/13

More KSD problems…

Posted in Chaste perspective at 3:37 pm by The Locked One

It’s still cutting into my flesh, and I keep sanding it down.

In the meantime, I’ve gone about ten days, and have thrown down the gauntlet to KH again…

2006/06/21

The continuing saga of the KSD-G2…

Posted in Chaste perspective at 5:39 pm by The Locked One

Been really, really busy at work, and of course the sex life has suffererd.

But on to the good stuff:  Just this morning (I am taking the day off) I finally purchased some sandpaper.  Yes, I have been that busy.  So, you ask, what led to this purchase?  Well, I'm fairly small (34 mm wide to be exact as the keptforher site suggests measuring — just one mm too small for the middle-sized ring), so I ordered the smallest, as recommended.

It really locked me in — no doubt, but even after a few hours of wear I was getting edema (not alarmingly so, but enough to cause some concern), but more importantly, it left me with blood blisters on the top and bottom of my penis, at both the front and back of the ring.  I have a dremel tool, and I tried using that to sand things down, but without a vice to hold things still, I just couldn't do a good enough job.

So now, I have real sandpaper, and sanded it twice (as recommended).  We'll see how long I can wear it now, knowing that I cannot escape!     

2006/05/11

KSD-G2 arrival

Posted in Chaste perspective at 3:21 am by The Locked One

Wow, it this thing tight!

 I had to sand down the inside just to begin to squeeze in.  Several tries with the stocking trick failed, and I ended up lubing up just as they suggested.  Once I'm in the ksdg2, I can then use the stocking trick to get all the way in to the tube.  I can pee without difficulty, but let's see what happens with the "wakeup wood", shall we?

One thing is for certain — it doesn't slip forward AT ALL!

 I am, all in all, quite pleased.  $20 fixed the cb3k's weaknesses in one fell swoop!

2006/05/07

KSD purchased

Posted in Chaste perspective at 11:29 pm by The Locked One

After realizing that I can escape so long as the CB3K is loose enough to be safe, I have decided to invest in the KSD-G2.

 I'm still locked, but I think KH has taken the key that I had, so I'm well and truly in for the time being.

2006/05/05

Self-locked

Posted in Chaste perspective at 2:16 pm by The Locked One

Locked myself, as I've got a big project, and don't want j/o distraction until it's done.

I'm sure KH will find out in a day or so… 

2006/04/04

Go figure…

Posted in Chaste perspective at 4:48 am by The Locked One

KH still cannot pee while wearing the cb3k.

 It will probably be back on me in a week or so.

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