So, yesterday (while unlocked, or rather, unlatched) I dremeled off the extra bits of the cage alignment pins. Two hours later, the plastic lock wedged a corner of itself within some tender flesh. That caused me to switch to a metal lock.
Between those two changes, it is much more comfortable. Not only that, but I tried (for the first time) the stocking trick. Wow! I am really, really in this thing now. Even when the KH took it off last night, it took about 30 seconds of serious tugging to remove the cage. I think that I might even be able to re-invert the ring segment to keep all three pins from anything sharp.
Of course, we’re two gay men, neither of us cross-dressers nor trans-anything. So, no stocking. Anyway, I tried using the thinnest sock I could find. Not only am I more securely in than ever before, but also erections become more contained, and my alignment for peeing is much improved — to the point where I will almost always be able to continue peeing standing up.
KH has committed — yet again — to have rules by the Superbowl. I am permitted, however, to ask 4 times each day.
I am about to head out and go to work. We’ll see how things work out — I’ve never been this far away from a key for this long before. I don’t forsee any problems.